You think she’s just being friendly when, in fact, she’s hitting on you. Have you seen the Nicole Kidman segment on Jimmy Fallon? In it, they each tell, from their own perspective, how when they were both single they almost dated.
Jimmy thought they were just meeting for a role, but Nicole was interested and he blew it.
That made me to think about some of the signs women may show men that they’re interested, men tend to always miss. I reached out to my girlfriends to get as much info as possible for you to take in.
1. She comes over … alone!
If you don’t know each other that well and she’s coming over by herself, she’s into you. If it were casual, she’d bring a friend or meet you out. Next time a girl you barely know comes over or invites you to her place, make sure to talk to her and not play video games like Fallon did, because she’s into you.
2. She stares a little too long:
If your eyes keep meeting at the bar and she stares for a little too long, that’s a sign to come hither.
3. She responds quickly.
Most women are attached to their phones. If she hasn’t responded in hours, she’s probably not that into you. If she calls you back or responds to your texts fairly quickly, she’s into you.
4. She’s taking an interest:
If she asks about your day, follows up about something you talked about, or texts you first, she’s into you.
5. She stays present.
When you’re together and talking she’s listening and engaging in the conversation. She’s present and not easily distracted by her surroundings. If she doesn’t zone out when you speak, she’s into you.
6. She finds excuses to touch you:
“Have you been working out? Let me feel that bicep.” OK, that was cheesy, but seriously, if she touches you for no apparent reason, gets closer to you in your booth and grazes your arm as she responds to a story you just told, she’s into you.
7. She goes out of her way to see you.
It’s 5 pm and you’re all the way across town, but she’ willing to get on the freeway at the peak of rush hour just to meet you for a drink. If she goes out of her way to see you, she’s into you.
8. She wants to try something new.
Have you seen that new movie? Have you ever tired rock climbing? If she asks you to try something new, she’s into you. If she’s willing to get out of her comfort zone and try a new adventure, she’s really into you.
Of course there are exceptions to these observations Some girls may show these signs because you’ve been friends for a while, or they’re just extra friendly. So proceed with care and evaluate the nature of your relationship prior to making a move.
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