When it comes to dating, things always seem more complicated than
they actually are. Guys are always trying to impress girls and girls are
always trying to impress guys. When it comes down to it, hardly ever do
we go into the dating world being our true, natural selves. Instead, we
put on a mask of artificiality trying to make ourselves seem that much
more appealing to the opposite $ex.
Take a look at what it’s like to date in this century: we’re always
trying to take the perfect pictures with the right filter so people will
be attracted to us, we try to make ourselves sound more appealing about
everything (I’m
not working as a waitress, I’m in the hospitality industry), and we’re
still trying to impress our 1,000 followers on social media in the
process. It’s complicated.
One of the first questions guys get asked on a date is-“What do you
do?” It’s not because all women out there are gold-diggers looking for
doctors, lawyers and CEO’s, it’s because we’re trying to get to know
you better.
Guys often think that the way to a women’s heart is through her
closet or jewelry box, trying to impress her with the lush and the
lavish. Not all girls need to be taken out for steak and lobster with
champagne on the first date-besides if that’s only the first date,
what’s going to happen on the fifth, a yacht? Not all girls want to see
your Benjamin Franklins before they see your Johnson.
There are far more things that a girl wants in a guy that has absolutely nothing to do with money.
10. Loyalty